"They Yo Kids"

Problem in society men need to get it together stop the excuses.
If you are a able body there's not to many reasons you can't take of your kids. I understand there's problem between you and your baby momma, things like no visitation can't call the house or she just don't want you in the child's life.

I understand those issues you have to work on it just don't give up-even if that means taking her sh*t just to see your kids do what you have to do.

With that said i will say it again if you are in these situation set some funds aside for your child/ren. In a account with you and your child/rens name on it.

But if you are out here living it up and you are doing your job as a father mentally and financially then you are not doing your job.

If you are wearing JORDON'S your kids should be wearing JORDON'S- you understand it's not that hard.
How can you feel good about what ever success you have and your kids look like sh*t.

But for the ones that are out of work and are trying to get work to take care of your family/kids more power to something will come thru just keep looking.

These type of men don't no how to lay down when they have mouths to feed.

Lady's pray for the men they need it more than you no. GOD BLESS

Get your mind right !!!!!!

Are you focus on you or is your attention on someone else?
You will never be happy or satisfied with yourself because the lack of self enjoyment.

If you ever notice how other people may seem selfish, some people are but the majority of them take the time to focus on them self.

Rule number 1 "I" comes before "u". I know what you maybe thinking ( what about the kids) I have to put my kids first.

If you don't take the time for you you will burn out then you will be no good to you or the kids. This is not about the kids see this is what im taking about(focus)on you some times it will better your life.

You will live a healthier life trust me. Life is not meant to be miserable you suppose to enjoy this life- you are only here for a limit of time.

Live your life!!!!!!!!

Got Her Out The Club?

In this day and age we have to be careful with who we associate ourselves with. Whether it's as friends or a loving relationship.Paying attention to the way people act is critical, there's tell tell signs you can look for but this doesn't all ways work.

So for the club goers this 1 is for you, she looking good in her high heels and beautiful dress all made up. I can say 90% of the time the club is not where you wanna find a mate for the long run.

This is not to say you can't find a decent women in a club but the chances are slim.

These are things you don't want...........................

if she is tossing it up
if she is on every guy in the club
if she have to keep pulling her shirt or skirt down
if she is louder than the music
if she let men rub all over her
if she starts a fight
if her clothes are see through
if she is taking bumps of cocaine
if she is at the club every week
if she has a man/ married

These are tell tell signs that these may not be the right woman for your future.

Look for the woman that barley hang out and that can control herself in public, and by you doing that you may eliminate the headaches and drama.

So take heed and open your eyes-focus on what you want in a woman an you should be fine.

but even with all that said- you can find a good woman in the club

Watch Your Money!!!!!!!!

In this day and age you can't trust the banks with your hard earned money.

When the government can take your money for what ever reason they want. The banks are not helping you gain interest anymore. Maybe 1-2% on your money while they make a load of money off your money.

They don't want you to keep your money under your mattress because they don't make no money. It's a way to control you with your earnings (that's right) your earnings.

So don't keep all of your hard earn money where you can't see it.

With all the fees that the bank charge you to get your money.

Stop spending start saving, watch your investments do your research.

Be carefull put some money away for a rainy day.

Let Her Go!!!

What's a man that carries weight? The answer is dead weight.
Get rid of the dead weight, there's many men in a relationship they don't want.

This is usually a waste of time and money, and I no men don't like to waste money.
So let's stop doing it- if she's not the one for you you should all ready know it.

Most of the time you will know by the things she do or the things you do, or maybe it's how you treat each other. There's tell tell sign everybody have them.

Stop being with people for convience because it's unhealthy for the two. Man up and just tell her it's not working for you and it's time to move on.

If you don't do this you will end up hurting her and yourself. If you don't be real with yourself you can't ever be real with anyone else.

Just some words of wisdom- Be who you are Be true to true.

What's wrong with us?

Why do people look down on drug users, when everybody has a habit and if you are doing anything that destroys the temple is considered a SIN.

That goes for smoking,drinking,unprotected sex, eating disorders,obesity,eating unhealthy (process foods and meats), prescription drug use etc.

All of these things destroys the temple. So wake up people get your house in order before you judge what somebody else does. Try helping a person with a habit if you so call love GOD.

(Men) What Are You Afraid Of ?

Tired of beating around the bush? Tired of holding your tongue? Are you tired of  not being who you are?

Well its time for a change now look stop not telling people the truth. This is what's funny to me every woman wants a truthful man but in reality they don't (That's bottom line).

If you don't tell people the truth it may hurt people and that's the big problem in this world, men we have been influence to not say things that will hurt people feelings. People are afraid of the truth. We have been robbed as being truth tellers-we continue to hurt each other by deceiving one another by continuing to go down this path but we can change all of this now (change the cycle).

EXAMPLES:

IF YOU ARE BROKE SAY YOU ARE BROKE
IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOUR KIDS SAY IT
IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE ONE YOU ARE WITH TELL THEM
IF YOU HAVE  PHOTO SHOP PICTURES OF YOURSELF ONLINE SAY IT
IF YOUR JOB DOESN'T PAY ENOUGH TELL YOUR BOSS
IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOUR FRIENDS DO TELL THEM
IF YOU ARE NOT A BALLER STOP ACTING LIKE IT
IF YOU ARE A RACIEST SAY YOU ARE
IF YOU CAN'T READ SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU ARE A CRACK HEAD SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU SELL DRUGS DON'T SAY IT  JUST DON'T GET CAUGHT
IF YOU LIKE TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE WOMAN SAY IT AND BE A PLAYER
IF YOU LIKE MEN SAY IT
IF YOUR WOMAN IS BAD BODY TELL HER AND HELP HER GET IN SHAPE
IF YOUR SEX LIFE SUCKS SAY IT
IF YOU HAVE A STD GET HELP
IF DON'T THINK THAT'S YOUR CHILD SAY IT AND CALL MAURY

THIS MAY SOUND FUNNY BUT HOW MANY OF YOU COULD REALLY HANDLE THE TRUTH.

MY POINT IS BE WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE WHEN YOU LIE TO PEOPLE YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF.

If you are the man you say you are be yourself because at the end of the day you are stuck with yourself.

So Man Up Be A Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Protect your future!!!

Men listen up if you want to continue living the way you are use to living you must rethink some things.

What are you doing with your finances, are you blowing your money on what hot right now.

Are you saving your money for a raining day? These are the question you must ask yourself in order to stay afloat in this economy.

Your family depend on you to do the grown up thing, if you are wasting time on nonsense you may be putting your family at risk.

These are hard times and if you think because you have a job/career that you are ok-please think again. Just look around at some of the people that has lost everything. Not because they were all stupid or miss manage money the mojority of these people lost the great income they had.

A lot of them didn't save more than they was spending, now a lot of people did save some money but the ones that did save a lot stay afloat longer than the ones that don't.

So this is a wake up call to all men protect your family at all cost. Don't depend on the government if you lose your job. Get your unemployment of course but also have some money put away. You will thank yourself later.

Support your Man!!!!

Women you have to support your man with positive reinforcement. You can do this by not critisizing him.

There's to many relationships that are destroyed by not supporting one another. This a very healthy for your relationship.

Lady's let your man be a man stop trying to run everything if you don't let him be who he is suppose to be the relation want work or won't be as healthy.

A man is the king of the castle,and the women is the queen.

Now with that said: a man runs the house hold but a woman make all the decisions(do you follow me).

Well if you don't here's what that means, in a good relationship every decision that a man makes he consults with the woman. The woman has her input on which direction He should go in.

This only work if the man trust and cares what his woman thinks.

So lady's let your man be a man,and support him when ever you can with positive feedback.

Don't throw your Money away!!!!!!!

Thinking about buying a home anytime soon, is this even in your future plans?

Well here's some advice if you think you will ever own a home think again, this is a big miss conception in the U.S. Now here is the reality- for some people buying a home is a great thing a good investment, that's all it is a investment it's like everything else with value a investment.

Why do i say that here's why- you will never own any property in the United States, you will always make some type of payment to some financial entity. If you don't believe me after you pay off your house miss a couple property tax payments and see what happens. So men let's stop thinking you will own a home think of it as a investment and use it as a investment.

It's been said (why rent when you can buy)-ever heard that before. The only time or reason to buy a home is when it benefits you and your family nothing else.

If your mortgage, insurance and property taxes are not less than your rent then what's the point. I know i know what you are saying why should you pay someone else mortgage by renting. To some degree we have been brain washed in believing this, if you are paying $800 in rent why not buy for let's say $1000 mortgage.

But what they don't add in is the property taxes, insurance and all the maintenance that comes with it. But i will say if you can get your mortgage, taxes and insurance the same or less than your rent then you should do it.

Bottom line is to do your homework before you sign anything know what you are getting yourself into and don't just take people word for it. Please don't do the balloon rate thing you will lose only go with a fixed rate that doesn't change. Be careful out there!!!!!!!!!

Any more Questions??????

 Alcohol-85,000 deaths





Prescription drugs-32,000 deaths

     Tobacco-435,000 deaths

Marijuana-0 deaths

Who's the Daddy??????

Lady's this is something a lot of women go though, but I'm here to tell you "if you have slept with more than 1 man in 30 days you don't know who your baby daddy is".

It's a on going problem in society today, yes it's a man responsibility to take care of his kids. But I'm not taking about the men that have taking the DNA test and found out the baby is his and not doing his part.

This is for the women that are sleeping with more than 1 man at a time, now this is a woman's responsibility to respect herself enough not be giving herself away like a slut in the street. It starts with the woman because 1 thing about it the baby is 100% the woman child.

So birth control is also for women to protect and prevent pregnancy, so lets start sharing the blame when it comes to the paternity of these kids. If more woman would be with just 1 man they would no who the father of there child is.

I will say again this is for the woman that sleep around.

So lady's start respecting yourself more and it would be easy to know who your baby daddy is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy (Real Men/Women) Day!!!!!!!!!!

Well it's the day for the Real Men and the Real Women who are fathers also to take a bow, for the ones that have been doing the part of the father, the daddy, the protector, the #1 man/woman in your child's life. 

Take a bow once again, if you are not at this point yet trust me you can make it if you try hard enough.

Lady's and Daughter's stand up and Appreciate the Real Men in your life, for a child with a real father will understand what i mean when i say a Real Father.

Even if your biological father was never there you probably know a Real Father or a Real Man and let's not forget the StepFathers.

The step father is the Real Man that take care of the child that is not his, GOD Bless the step father. For some it's the only Father that some kids know.

A Real Father is someone that: cares, listen, talks, read, love, help with homework, clean up, not abusive, teach right from wrong and all around takes care of his family an or kids. Stand up Real Fathers.

So once again Real Fathers, Real Daddy's, Real Men, and Real Husband take another bow because this is your day. To my Mother-Happy Fathers Day!!!!!!!!

Watch your kids!!!!!

In this day and age you as a parent can not let up on your kids. Stop being your child's friend, this is where a lot of parents are failing.

Be in all of there business there should be no privacy in your house, parents stop with this method of thinking you are the adult act like it.

You can call it spying you can call it what ever you like but you should call it parenting.

It's your responsibility not the government problem it's yours i think they want a certain percentage of kids to fail and don't make despite what they may say.

Think for a second how many kids are dying failing or dropping out of school, open your eyes do you want your child below the poverty level or do you want more for your child? If you can not see this maybe you are the wrong person for the job-let somebody else be a parent to your child.

Because by not being in everything your child is doing you subject them to failure no one else just you, so when say i trust my child- my child want do this and that you are being nieve.

The government have a lot of you brain washed in think your child should have these rights of privacy-well I'm here to tell you what a child's privacy means.

Drug use, teen pregnancy, building bombs, meeting rapist, failing school, suicidal thoughts etc..... get it together until they get out of your house there is no privacy (grow up parents) stop being the child.

Domestic Violence!!!!!!!!!!!!! Men and Women

First off I'm talking to you men this will be quick. Look if you are hitting on your woman you need your butt wiped you need to seek help you have self-esteem and anger management issues.

For some of you this makes you a man but I'm here to let you no it don't. It makes you less than a man if you can't take what your woman do you need to stand up be a man and tell her it's over.

If she is disrespecting you- leave her,
If she wont shut up and you can't handle her mouth- leave her,
If she don't clean how you want her to clean- leave her,
If you caught her cheating on you- leave her,

If these are some of the things that makes you hit your woman, that you are suppose to love then you should leave her. Bottom line grow up start controlling your anger go to the gym or get some consoling.

This is for the women-stand up for your self stop letting these men bet you like a man. I'm have no sympathy for the woman that have been getting beat for 1,2,3,4,5 and up years.

If you are over 20 and you don't no a man shouldn't beat you, you have a problem. If you don't no now you do he don't love you that's not love lady's, it starts with you.

I know a lot of women will say a lot of women think that a man love them if they beat them, some even get threaten and that's why they deal with the abuse.

I will never know what a woman goes though on this matter but i will tell you this as a man, a man will continue to beat his woman if a woman keep letting him do it. The solution for women is put him in jail the first time and don't deal with that man ever again.

For the provoking woman don't put your hands on your man if you don't want him to hit you back. This is for the women that may have that man that she know won't put his hands on her but every body have there limit.

Let's all take responsibility for our actions.

4 Tips on finding the right Woman for you (Single Men)

The Single Man has many choices he can choose from when it comes to women. Men here is where you have the advantage in your life and the direction you want to go in. You can be pickie-you can set the standards an pic the right woman for you.

You probably have been with the wrong women before and that's why your single again. Now by taking your time on the new search you need to set boundaries and hold a standard to the type of woman you really want.
4 Tips
1-If you don't like a woman that smokes don't pic that woman.

2-If you want a woman with a career find a woman with a career and not a job.

3-You don't want kids at this point in your life find a woman that don't have kids.

4-If you have good credit find a woman with good credit.

Do you understand what I'm saying now don't get with a woman you are not comfortable with, it's like buying a pair of shoes. If you like Air Jordon's you probably won't go to pay less to find a pair Jordon's.

So stop picking your woman based on the superficial and find a woman that meets your standards.

THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN;( MEN) IS SHE THE RIGHT ONE?

How do you know if she's the right woman for you, is she doing what she's suppose too be doing?
A lot of men pick the type of woman they are with by looks;why? because appearance is the first thing men see.

How a woman is dressed, how she walks, how she smiles etc.....so some times we get caught up in that whole beauty thing and what a woman is really about becomes secondary.

Now you got that woman and time has past you are now in a relationship you may find that she is pretty an all that but she have no home skills. Meaning she don't clean, cook, wash clothes, the sex is horrible, she's a loud mouth, she loves the streets/clubs an don't respect you- now you may fell stuck (what do you do now?)

Do you leave her, do you work on it or do you just deal with it?

1.If its possible you should work on it talk about the things that are bothering you see if that helps.
2.If you can't work it out you should move on- maybe that woman is not on your level and you should keep it moving.

Men don't waste your time on the wrong woman you will be miserable figure out the type of woman you would like to be with and find that woman don't settle for just a beautiful woman.
Men Everything that looks good is not good!!!!!!!!!

Happy Memorial Day!!!

This is for the fallen soldiers and the ones fighting abroad. This are the people that goes into situation with no hesitation for our country.

We must never forget these brave men and women that sacrifice everything so we can live better lives.
So to everyone out there please remember and so your support, they don't do what they do for nothing.

I would like to remember my father who served in the Vietnam War, i love you and you will never be forgotten.

Should you pay for the date (Men)?

A lot of people may find this to be a tough question and I'm here to help.This has been going on for a long time women believes men should always pay. Well I'm here to tell you lady's you are have right, men you should pay for the date because its the right thing to do.(ever heard that before?)

Woman has always felt disrespected when men would say a woman's place is in the kitchen. Have you noticed over the years how there's more men in the kitchen than ever (that's change) why is this subject any different.

But it's 2010 and things have change from back in the day were women couldn't work. Now more than 80% of women work and i think women should share the responsibility. I don't think its a bad thing for a woman to pay sometimes, there's a lot of women that don't mind paying.

This doesn't make a man less than a man people this means you have a woman that understands that its not all about her. For years women have been wanting to be treated equal and so do we, but is it the pride of the man that may be tarnished if she decides to pay for dinner.

You would be surprised at the number of women that don't mind, i no a lot of people will disagree but ask around and you will see that a big percentage of women really don't mind.

(SEX). Men talk to your sons.

Men this is for you, we as men have to talk to our sons about sex. Just think how you learned about it, was it from a porn movie back in the day or from your older brother that thought he knew it all because he claimed all the girls loved him.

We as men or some of us may think it's a touchy subject to talk about, think about the age you were when you had your first child did you have all the info you needed or may have wanted. Most of us was taught wear a condom but you see where that got you.

Listen up information is key in any situation I'm not saying just teach abstinence but teach the fundamentals of having sex. Don't be nieve and think your child will wait until they have finished school and have a career or get married, its almost not realistic in some cases.

The percentage of teens having sex is growing, std's are sky rocketing this information starts at home or you can let the world teach them and wait for the outcome. 

Keep Friends out your business!!!!!

Look men if you want to keep a healthy relationship Keep your friends out of your business. Now why do i say that, in every relationship its different but what goes on your house stays in your house.

It's okay to confide in your friends but to a certain existence, like for example you can talk about sex but not with all the details ask a question and get on with it. This is if you just have to ask somebody but I would advise not to talk about sex at all because in reality its nobody business but yours.

But we all my have questions that we may not feel comfortable asking our mates about. But what i would say to that is if you can lay down with your partner but you can't ask the uncomfortable question then maybe you shouldn't be with that person.

The purpose of this is some friends are really not your friends, some people can care less about your relationships and don't forget misery loves company. So if you want to keep your friendship (for some) keep your friends out of your business.

Having fun with your woman?

Men we have to bring back the romance in the relationship. It's okay to tell your woman you love her but don't stop there. We have to go back to the things we did in the beginning like-calling her for no reason just to say you were on my mind.

It's the little things that count try writing her a love letter or take a naked picture of yourself and leave it in her phone or purse (lol). Well maybe don't go that far but it will work, do something fun like get a hotel for the weekend or go away on a trip for the weekend.What about parachuting or bungee jumping together.

Try turning your friends down for the weekend but do it front of her or so that she can hear you. A night out dancing or go clubbing to a club that you haven't been to. Go walking on the beach- get drunk together if the both of you can be civilize when you drink. If not that may be a bad chose or go to Dairy Queen have a banana split together.

Play some sports together like tennis, racket ball, baseball, football,basketball etc...Something simple like staying in bed all day don't go nowhere. Men try turning your phone off women love the attention. Just for fun do her hair and make-up even when you mess it up she would have still had fun (take a picture) for memories.

The number 1 thing for some maybe have sex outside be spontaneous, remember as long as she is having a good time you are doing your job.

Financial Freedom

Stuck with that 4 year car note, what about that credit card debt, can't put your kids through college-well you need financial freedom.

This starts at home you can easily change by changing your thinking. Start by budgeting and saving the majority of your income, now a lot of people may say how can i save if i work check to check.

Some good ways to start is by setting goals set goals for your self. Start with small goals its hard to focus on big goals if you can't reach the small ones. For instance like you wanna save $100 this month suppose to you wanna save $20,000 this year-make them realistic.

Track you money: see were ever penny is going, keep all receipts, pay with cash stop swiping, stop eating out its bad for you anyway, cut down on your cable, lower your cell phone bill, shop for things on sell that you need (necessities). The money you take to go unnecessary  shopping  this month save it or buy a stock (sharebuilder.com).

Invest: make your money work for you, some banks have a 4-9% return- check out the banks in your area. People we have to control our future think bigger than what you may have been thinking. Stop buying designer clothes save that money, you are only making other people rich stop trying to impress your friends and other people. If you may notice you and the company you keep 9 times out of 10 are in the same boat (Financially).

So start focusing on a better you and you can have a better future.

Mercedes!! So what if you can't afford it!!!!!

Is things like this really important in your life, does the material things make you or brake you. Everybody is not meant to have the so called luxury's  in life, but that's if you consider it a luxury.

Some people could care less- they have better ways to spend there time and money. I'm not saying that Mercedes Benz are bad cars, that's not what I'm trying to do here. You have to find what drives you as a person some people may stress out because they can't have to finer things in life.

Look people your health is worth more than any material item you may can afford, but 80 or 90% of the things you purchase depreciates in value as soon as you buy it. Investing your money or making purchases that can increase in value is the smart way to go.

Gaining wealth can start with $0.01.

Men get a Suit: Get your Swag on!!!!!!

This is for all men, if you ever wonder why you can't get that woman you seen today or you didn't get that job you tried so hard to get. Let's start with this, if you don't have one already you need to get one (A SUIT) yes that's right a suit.

Now this mite not help you get that beautiful woman you seen or that job you wanted but it will certainly make you feel better. If you look better your attitude will be better, perception is everything.

People judge people on appearance: example if you see good looking woman but see is dressed like a bum you probably wouldn't give her the time a day, but if she was dress to impress you would probably be interested in her just by how shes dressed.

The same goes for us men, women loves a well dressed man it shows character, it shows you care how you look, and it shows taste. Women loves fashion and if you present good fashion it will catch a women eye-trust me.

Find a suit store the Men's Warehouse is a very good one they have a large variety of suits. What kind of suit to buy you probably thinking---nothing to flashy, stay away from loud colors and don't over do it. Find something to your liken or better yet ask a woman's opinion.

Personalize it pick the right fabric, coordinate, chose the right style for you. You have to play the part if you look successful you will probably be successful.

Don't forget the shoes- i no we often buy tennis shoe and that's fine but stepping it up means getting some leather or platform shoes (casual ware). You can find brands such as Stacy Adams, Clarke's, Steve Maddens etc....

What's a suit without a nice dress Watch, you don't have to tell time with it but it look great with a suit. All of these things go together, so don't have do it. When women dress they dress from head to toe, we need to do the same.

Finally the last thing- it's big if not the biggest, get a hair cut (grooming) dressing to impress is nothing without being properly groom, that means shaving, re twist your dreads, re braid your hair, new hair dew, nails clean, feet clean, take a bath, brush your teeth, use deodorant and so on......

These things make you who you are and if you don't care to look decent you will suffer, image is everything.

Men: Please beat your KIDS!!!!!!!

No matter what anybody tell you (BEAT YOUR KIDS). Men society has messed up the way we as parent can discipline our kids. That really disturbs me, the government calls it abuse if you beat your kids. But I'm here to tell you beat your kids.

Look i don't mean child abuse but i mean put that fear in your child, if you don't you will lose control of that child. Look at this the crime rate among kids have sky rocketed, drugs, sex, school drop rate and so on.

I here a lot of people say don't beat the child talk to the child find out what the problem is, try using time out yeah time out. Put the child on punishment but don't beat the child. Look i got a lot of a** whippings and look how i turned out, it could have been different i could be dead or in jail.

But thanks to a good old fashion a** whupping i learned respect, i have morals, and i made something of myself.

Men this is for you, we all no there's a lot of fatherless kids in the world. I give all props to the women for doing our duties from the start. But there is nothing like your dad beating your butt, growing up i would always rather my mom beat me than my dad it did something to my soul (lol) when my dad would beat me.

This method makes it easier on the women in raising the child trust me, That's why i say beat your kids-teach them that respect that they are suppose to have. When i was coming up as a good son there were things kids didn't think about doing now they are shooting each other,disrespecting the parents,acting out in school (failing more).

Did you no that when a child acts out you can get a check for that child (ADHD)or (A.D.D). They will pay you because your child is hyper, this to me is a form of labeling and sending the wrong message to parents. They also have toMedicate some of these kids to calm them down, i think the child is just being a child. Maybe i just don't understand!

I feel if the government wants to dictate how you chastise your child they should take care of that child. This is not for the child abusing parents but for the parents with sense. I no laws are put in place as a safety net but enough is enough, let parents be parents.

To all parents stop trying to be your child's friend, you are the parent act like it. Men teach your son how to be a Man and teach your daughter how to be a lady.

(MARIJUANA) IS IT THAT BAD FOR YOU HEALTH? MONTEL SPEAKS

Montel Williams Battle.You be the judge.

(MARIJUANA) IS IT THAT BAD FOR YOU HEALTH?

People are we stupid or just ignorant. How long are we going to let the FEDS tell us that cannabis is bad for us. Marijuana has hundreds of benefits people- don't be fooled.

OK OK i no what you are saying he must be high or he smokes weed, no i drink lets just clear that up. But with that said the majority of society don't smoke weed because of there jobs.

Let's just be real Alcohol is one of the leading causes of death in the world-no i don't have the statistics. But common sense tells me that, I have never in my life seen or heard of anybody dying because of cannabis (weed). They say it's a gate way drug blah, blah, blah. (Scare Tactic)

My problem is Tobacco kills people everyday, prescription drugs have side affects that may or will kill you, the problem with people is as long as its FDA approved  people feel safe and  take this (B.S). People think for yourself marijuana is not legal because......

It will cut the cost of health care in half-what do i mean by that. It starts like this the foods you eat are bad for you they make you sick and some people don't realize this-PEOPLE food rots in the body (MEAT) is bad for you. (OBESITY) and yes it runs in your family ever heard that before. That's true if your family been eating the same way for generations.   "EDUCATE YOURSELF PEOPLE"

Lets say you get sick-now you have to pay your DR. to prescribe you medicine for your sickness (SIDE AFFECTS) people. Now you need something for the side affects and so on. Money, Money, Money do you see what I'm saying. Everything that is proven to kill or harm us is legal (WHY IS THAT)?

All the (Chemical Man Mad Products) are legal, if you think weed is bad check out what's in the drugs/ sedative people use everyday-cocaine,heroin,opium,tobacco.All of these drugs kill and people take them everyday. If you are that ignorant to continue to think marijuana-cannabis-weed is a harmful drug remember this (WEED!!! NEVER KILLED NO ONE).

TOP 10 Ways To Make A Woman Happy!!!!! Part 1

Men listen we have to find better ways to treat the woman that's in our life. So here's some tips for the men,

Tips for making your woman happy:
1. Compliment her: this is big- women love compliments especially on there clothes, hair, nails and how they smell. A woman's hair is everything this is the first thing that people notice and if she don't feel good about her hair she won't feel good about anything.

2.Cook: women like a man that will get in the kitchen and slave over a hot stove like they do, now you don't have to be a chef and it mite not taste good but the effort of doing it is what matters.

3.Spend Time: women always want to spend time with there man but a lot of men don't no how to.Trust me spend the time, try to do everything you wouldn't normally do with your woman and this should work.Because if you don't some one else will!!!!

4.Get Her Opinion: even if you no what you are going to do get her opinion, you may see how to go at the situation better. It shows that you value her and her opinion. Women love to be involved with there man.

5.Support Her: lets say she wants to try a different hair doe or wants a new job tell her to go for it. Yeah give your opinion some positives and negatives, but over all give her the support. This builds confidence and she will love you for that, she will feel like if no one else has her back a least her man do an that's all that counts.

It's Time To Step It Up (Men)

Look it's time for a change, time for men to be men. Time to grow up that's the bottom line, what you may be doing may not be the right thing evaluate your life (check yourself). It's to many men acting like boys so find whats important in your life.Seek a new path, if you have been doing the same thing for so long  you will get the same results.

A lot of times we as men beat ourselves down because we are in a stand still in our lives nothing new is happening. That's because we are taking the same action, we need a new outlook on life. Try finding a new career, try to get that loan you always wanted, try new foods, take a  trip treat yourself to something different instead of clubbing this weekend.

If you are single try meeting new people or if you have a lady try jet skiing, mountain climbing, camping, go on a cruise, or do some type of project etc....

The meaning of this is get away from your everyday surroundings, if you went 500 miles last year go 1000 miles this year. You guys understand what I'm saying (something different) a change can be very healthy.Get out of your circle step outside the box. There's more in life than what you may be doing, no excuses just do it.

The JOB-LESS Man

One of the worst situation for a man or anybody is being unemployed. In today's society there many people struggling with trying to find work. A lot of people have lost there job in the last couple of years, but now it's time to move forward. I'm not trying to be insensitive to anyone situation because i have been where you are. Men here's some good tips that you can take that may work for you

First off the Internet is this best way to find employment such as www.careerbuilder.com, monster.com, employmentguide.com etc....

Also get the newspaper, the Sunday paper because the employment section has a lot of jobs that may not be on the Internet.

I think the biggest mistake people make when job searching is they don't follow up. What ever you do follow up, I would say follow up 7 days after you put the app in. Then every 3 days after that unless a employer give you a straight answer, like you don't qualify or the job has been filled.

Don't be to aggressive don't except anything don't take no for an answer in certain situations. Keep your head up, and doors may close in your face but don't let that stop you, don't let nothing stop you.