Let Her Go!!!

What's a man that carries weight? The answer is dead weight.
Get rid of the dead weight, there's many men in a relationship they don't want.

This is usually a waste of time and money, and I no men don't like to waste money.
So let's stop doing it- if she's not the one for you you should all ready know it.

Most of the time you will know by the things she do or the things you do, or maybe it's how you treat each other. There's tell tell sign everybody have them.

Stop being with people for convience because it's unhealthy for the two. Man up and just tell her it's not working for you and it's time to move on.

If you don't do this you will end up hurting her and yourself. If you don't be real with yourself you can't ever be real with anyone else.

Just some words of wisdom- Be who you are Be true to true.

What's wrong with us?

Why do people look down on drug users, when everybody has a habit and if you are doing anything that destroys the temple is considered a SIN.

That goes for smoking,drinking,unprotected sex, eating disorders,obesity,eating unhealthy (process foods and meats), prescription drug use etc.

All of these things destroys the temple. So wake up people get your house in order before you judge what somebody else does. Try helping a person with a habit if you so call love GOD.

(Men) What Are You Afraid Of ?

Tired of beating around the bush? Tired of holding your tongue? Are you tired of  not being who you are?

Well its time for a change now look stop not telling people the truth. This is what's funny to me every woman wants a truthful man but in reality they don't (That's bottom line).

If you don't tell people the truth it may hurt people and that's the big problem in this world, men we have been influence to not say things that will hurt people feelings. People are afraid of the truth. We have been robbed as being truth tellers-we continue to hurt each other by deceiving one another by continuing to go down this path but we can change all of this now (change the cycle).

EXAMPLES:

IF YOU ARE BROKE SAY YOU ARE BROKE
IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOUR KIDS SAY IT
IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE ONE YOU ARE WITH TELL THEM
IF YOU HAVE  PHOTO SHOP PICTURES OF YOURSELF ONLINE SAY IT
IF YOUR JOB DOESN'T PAY ENOUGH TELL YOUR BOSS
IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOUR FRIENDS DO TELL THEM
IF YOU ARE NOT A BALLER STOP ACTING LIKE IT
IF YOU ARE A RACIEST SAY YOU ARE
IF YOU CAN'T READ SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU ARE A CRACK HEAD SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU SELL DRUGS DON'T SAY IT  JUST DON'T GET CAUGHT
IF YOU LIKE TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE WOMAN SAY IT AND BE A PLAYER
IF YOU LIKE MEN SAY IT
IF YOUR WOMAN IS BAD BODY TELL HER AND HELP HER GET IN SHAPE
IF YOUR SEX LIFE SUCKS SAY IT
IF YOU HAVE A STD GET HELP
IF DON'T THINK THAT'S YOUR CHILD SAY IT AND CALL MAURY

THIS MAY SOUND FUNNY BUT HOW MANY OF YOU COULD REALLY HANDLE THE TRUTH.

MY POINT IS BE WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE WHEN YOU LIE TO PEOPLE YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF.

If you are the man you say you are be yourself because at the end of the day you are stuck with yourself.

So Man Up Be A Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Protect your future!!!

Men listen up if you want to continue living the way you are use to living you must rethink some things.

What are you doing with your finances, are you blowing your money on what hot right now.

Are you saving your money for a raining day? These are the question you must ask yourself in order to stay afloat in this economy.

Your family depend on you to do the grown up thing, if you are wasting time on nonsense you may be putting your family at risk.

These are hard times and if you think because you have a job/career that you are ok-please think again. Just look around at some of the people that has lost everything. Not because they were all stupid or miss manage money the mojority of these people lost the great income they had.

A lot of them didn't save more than they was spending, now a lot of people did save some money but the ones that did save a lot stay afloat longer than the ones that don't.

So this is a wake up call to all men protect your family at all cost. Don't depend on the government if you lose your job. Get your unemployment of course but also have some money put away. You will thank yourself later.

Support your Man!!!!

Women you have to support your man with positive reinforcement. You can do this by not critisizing him.

There's to many relationships that are destroyed by not supporting one another. This a very healthy for your relationship.

Lady's let your man be a man stop trying to run everything if you don't let him be who he is suppose to be the relation want work or won't be as healthy.

A man is the king of the castle,and the women is the queen.

Now with that said: a man runs the house hold but a woman make all the decisions(do you follow me).

Well if you don't here's what that means, in a good relationship every decision that a man makes he consults with the woman. The woman has her input on which direction He should go in.

This only work if the man trust and cares what his woman thinks.

So lady's let your man be a man,and support him when ever you can with positive feedback.