(Men) What Are You Afraid Of ?

Tired of beating around the bush? Tired of holding your tongue? Are you tired of  not being who you are?

Well its time for a change now look stop not telling people the truth. This is what's funny to me every woman wants a truthful man but in reality they don't (That's bottom line).

If you don't tell people the truth it may hurt people and that's the big problem in this world, men we have been influence to not say things that will hurt people feelings. People are afraid of the truth. We have been robbed as being truth tellers-we continue to hurt each other by deceiving one another by continuing to go down this path but we can change all of this now (change the cycle).

EXAMPLES:

IF YOU ARE BROKE SAY YOU ARE BROKE
IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOUR KIDS SAY IT
IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE ONE YOU ARE WITH TELL THEM
IF YOU HAVE  PHOTO SHOP PICTURES OF YOURSELF ONLINE SAY IT
IF YOUR JOB DOESN'T PAY ENOUGH TELL YOUR BOSS
IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOUR FRIENDS DO TELL THEM
IF YOU ARE NOT A BALLER STOP ACTING LIKE IT
IF YOU ARE A RACIEST SAY YOU ARE
IF YOU CAN'T READ SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU ARE A CRACK HEAD SAY IT AND GET HELP
IF YOU SELL DRUGS DON'T SAY IT  JUST DON'T GET CAUGHT
IF YOU LIKE TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE WOMAN SAY IT AND BE A PLAYER
IF YOU LIKE MEN SAY IT
IF YOUR WOMAN IS BAD BODY TELL HER AND HELP HER GET IN SHAPE
IF YOUR SEX LIFE SUCKS SAY IT
IF YOU HAVE A STD GET HELP
IF DON'T THINK THAT'S YOUR CHILD SAY IT AND CALL MAURY

THIS MAY SOUND FUNNY BUT HOW MANY OF YOU COULD REALLY HANDLE THE TRUTH.

MY POINT IS BE WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE WHEN YOU LIE TO PEOPLE YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF.

If you are the man you say you are be yourself because at the end of the day you are stuck with yourself.

So Man Up Be A Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Protect your future!!!

Men listen up if you want to continue living the way you are use to living you must rethink some things.

What are you doing with your finances, are you blowing your money on what hot right now.

Are you saving your money for a raining day? These are the question you must ask yourself in order to stay afloat in this economy.

Your family depend on you to do the grown up thing, if you are wasting time on nonsense you may be putting your family at risk.

These are hard times and if you think because you have a job/career that you are ok-please think again. Just look around at some of the people that has lost everything. Not because they were all stupid or miss manage money the mojority of these people lost the great income they had.

A lot of them didn't save more than they was spending, now a lot of people did save some money but the ones that did save a lot stay afloat longer than the ones that don't.

So this is a wake up call to all men protect your family at all cost. Don't depend on the government if you lose your job. Get your unemployment of course but also have some money put away. You will thank yourself later.

Support your Man!!!!

Women you have to support your man with positive reinforcement. You can do this by not critisizing him.

There's to many relationships that are destroyed by not supporting one another. This a very healthy for your relationship.

Lady's let your man be a man stop trying to run everything if you don't let him be who he is suppose to be the relation want work or won't be as healthy.

A man is the king of the castle,and the women is the queen.

Now with that said: a man runs the house hold but a woman make all the decisions(do you follow me).

Well if you don't here's what that means, in a good relationship every decision that a man makes he consults with the woman. The woman has her input on which direction He should go in.

This only work if the man trust and cares what his woman thinks.

So lady's let your man be a man,and support him when ever you can with positive feedback.

Don't throw your Money away!!!!!!!

Thinking about buying a home anytime soon, is this even in your future plans?

Well here's some advice if you think you will ever own a home think again, this is a big miss conception in the U.S. Now here is the reality- for some people buying a home is a great thing a good investment, that's all it is a investment it's like everything else with value a investment.

Why do i say that here's why- you will never own any property in the United States, you will always make some type of payment to some financial entity. If you don't believe me after you pay off your house miss a couple property tax payments and see what happens. So men let's stop thinking you will own a home think of it as a investment and use it as a investment.

It's been said (why rent when you can buy)-ever heard that before. The only time or reason to buy a home is when it benefits you and your family nothing else.

If your mortgage, insurance and property taxes are not less than your rent then what's the point. I know i know what you are saying why should you pay someone else mortgage by renting. To some degree we have been brain washed in believing this, if you are paying $800 in rent why not buy for let's say $1000 mortgage.

But what they don't add in is the property taxes, insurance and all the maintenance that comes with it. But i will say if you can get your mortgage, taxes and insurance the same or less than your rent then you should do it.

Bottom line is to do your homework before you sign anything know what you are getting yourself into and don't just take people word for it. Please don't do the balloon rate thing you will lose only go with a fixed rate that doesn't change. Be careful out there!!!!!!!!!

Any more Questions??????

 Alcohol-85,000 deaths





Prescription drugs-32,000 deaths

     Tobacco-435,000 deaths

Marijuana-0 deaths

Who's the Daddy??????

Lady's this is something a lot of women go though, but I'm here to tell you "if you have slept with more than 1 man in 30 days you don't know who your baby daddy is".

It's a on going problem in society today, yes it's a man responsibility to take care of his kids. But I'm not taking about the men that have taking the DNA test and found out the baby is his and not doing his part.

This is for the women that are sleeping with more than 1 man at a time, now this is a woman's responsibility to respect herself enough not be giving herself away like a slut in the street. It starts with the woman because 1 thing about it the baby is 100% the woman child.

So birth control is also for women to protect and prevent pregnancy, so lets start sharing the blame when it comes to the paternity of these kids. If more woman would be with just 1 man they would no who the father of there child is.

I will say again this is for the woman that sleep around.

So lady's start respecting yourself more and it would be easy to know who your baby daddy is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!